1. Yes.
2. I don't think so.
3. Yes, with an explanation. (See below.)
It's normally not meant literally. That's what you don't seem to understand. If I would say you should take something with a grain of salt that would mean you should be skeptical about that-- that you should not be too quick to believe it (whatever it happens to be).
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