Re: "Between" is used when naming distinct, individual items (can be 2, 3, or more).
Could you tell me how I can ask my questions if I would like to get answers like the two parts above? Now, please let me try it:
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Sentence a. XXX
Sentence b. OOO
1. Do they mean the same in effective meaning? If not, could you tell me about it?
2. They are different in aspect, so what is the difference in use between them?
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Do you think this kind of question better?
Here's my answer to this, along with some general advice. Bear in mind that other members will probably have quite different answers.
Generally speaking, I really think you should avoid asking us what the difference in meaning is, because a) it unnecessarily leads us to focus on meaning, and b) it may lead us to different interpretations of what kind of meaning you mean. You could simply ask
What are the differences between a and b? This will open the question to all kinds of difference—aspect, sense, naturalness, formality, usage patterns, etc.
Another question that I think works well is
Of a and b, which is better? or
Of a and b, which should I use? Again, these questions are open enough for us to give you quick, simple, diverse, and clear answers. Those of us who wish to provide reasons for our advice, and/or any accompanying explanations, will do so without being asked.
If you really do want to ask about meaning, though, it will be very useful if you remember the following two distinctions:.
1)
effective meaning versus
analytic meaning
This is as I explained in my previous post so I won't go into it again. A good way to ask about effective meaning is this:
Would both sentences have the same effect? Here, you can avoid using the word 'meaning' altogether.
2)
speaker meaning versus
sentence meaning
I think I've explained this to you before, but I'd like to remind you how very important this difference is. Speaker meaning is about what the speaker means, regardless of what he says. Sentence meaning is about what the words mean, regardless of what the speaker is trying to do. My opinion is that you tend to focus far too much on sentence meaning and not enough on speaker meaning. Please take some time to understand this very important difference, and try to apply your understanding to the way you ask your future questions. This will improve your questioning enormously, and lead you to much better answers. (It will also save us a lot of time when answering, I think.)
Another point I want to make is this: As a general rule, I would also advise avoiding questions like
Is X acceptable? or
Is X correct? and even
Is X natural?, because the members here have different ideas of what those questions mean.